Monthly Archives: March 2010

‘Burr Oak has a local bidder’

Burr Oak might have a buyer, I found out while digging through the court file.

Who’d buy scandal-ridden a cemetery with little space left?

Two Southlanders in the death industry looking to get Cedar Park cemetery and funeral home, too, it turns out.

Two Southland businesses have banded together to try to buy the beleaguered Burr Oak Cemetery and its sister property in Calumet Park.

And if no one else bids on Burr Oak, near Alsip, or the Cedar Park Cemetery and funeral home during an April 26 auction, the Gatling family and the owner of Restvale Cemetery in Alsip could take them both for $675,000.

A federal bankruptcy judge is slated to decide Thursday whether to accept the terms of the sale to Cemecare, a newly created business, as written.

Gatling Community Development, an offshoot of the South Side funeral parlor, and Willie Carter, who owns Restvale Cemetery in Alsip, formed Cemecare in late February, according to public documents.

Three weeks later, they submitted a proposal to acquire the cemeteries.

Read the whole story as published in the SouthtownStar, March 31, 2010.

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‘Suicide victim’s dad’s mission: prevention’

I met Bud Fischer over breakfast after he emailed one of my colleagues in sports, looking for a way to say he was finally more angry than emotional about teen suicides 12 years after the death of his eldest son. And I spent Monday afternoon on the phone with other devastated parents who’ve also lost children to suicide.

BY LAUREN FITZPATRICK

For 10 of the past 12 years, there was a word Bud Fischer could not bring himself to say–Suicide.

Out of nowhere in 1997, his promising 17-year-old son, Jacob, took his own life in the family’s Orland Park home.

Jacob’s mother found him. His elder sister tried to resuscitate him. It was too late.

Life became a blur.

“Five years, it really took, to breathe,” the father of four said.

Somewhere in the depths of his grief in the week after his son’s death, Bud Fischer started showing up to services for other teens who had reached the same breaking point Jacob had.

The list of suicides in Bud Fischer’s south suburban circle grew. His tally today is 15.

The last two deaths of Orland Park boys at their own hands made up his mind. He has to figure out a way to keep kids from killing themselves. He has to spare other families the pain.

“What’s happening is too many kids are gone, and I’m angry about it,” Fischer recalled recently.

Maybe families should be looking into their mental health histories. Maybe parents should talk about suicide with their children the way they would bring up drugs, drinking and sex.

The teacher-turned-landscaper admits he’s no expert. He has no guarantees.

But, he said, “I do have this credential – I’ve been there.”

Read the whole story as published on the cover of the SouthtownStar, March 29, 2010:

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FIND OUT MORE:
LOSS (Loving Outreach to Suicide Survivors) is a nondenominational, free program run through Catholic Charities for people who’ve lost a loved one to suicide. For information, visitwww.catholiccharities.net/loss or call(312) 655-7283.
The program meets at nine locations, including:

  • Catholic Charities Southwest Suburban Office, 7000 W. 111th St., Worth. Meetings are from 7 to 9 p.m. the fourth Tuesday of every month and are led by Bruce Engle.
  • St. Xavier University, 3700 W. 103rd St., Chicago. Open group meets from 7 to 9 p.m. the third Sunday of every month.

Suicide hot lines: (800) SUICIDE (784-2433) or (800) 273-8255.

And I had great expert help from LOSS’ Bruce Engel, and Scott Costello at Personal Solutions Counseling in Frankfort.

‘Matteson superintendent on leave of absence’

This was one of the first follows after a series of Sunshine Week stories. Word came in that a superintendent featured prominently in a story about spending had taken a leave, and a paid one at that.

BY LAUREN FITZPATRICK AND CASEY TONER
As superintendent of Matteson Elementary School District 159, Ronald Wynn spent thousands of dollars on restaurants, hotels and credit card fees.

And now, less than a week after his lavish spending came to light, he’ll continue to collect a paycheck while out on extended leave, the SouthtownStar learned Friday.

Wynn, a Winthrop Harbor resident who’d led the south suburban district since 2008, has taken an extended paid leave of absence, said Dr. Rose Lee, president of the District 159 board.

His deputy, Barbara Suggs Mason, has been named interim superintendent, district staff found out in an e-mail sent Friday. The school board approved the interim appointment at a special board meeting Wednesday.

No one answered the phone at Wynn’s house Friday; Mason did not return multiple phone and e-mail messages seeking comment.

Read the whole story, as published on SouthtownStar.com on March 27, 2010, or in the SouthtownStar, March 28, 2010:

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Opening: The Aldermanic 50

Super fun Friday night. 50 artists interpret and capture the likenesses of 50 aldermen. I read the paper every day and there were reps I’d never heard of before, like they never open their mouths to say boo.

Like John Rice, who, another Alderman told me, ended up with such a ridiculous portrait because he never called his artist back. This is as close as I could get. In his absence, he was super popular. My buddy bought him up.

Ariel Reboyras. HIlarious. On scene. Thrilled with his Lego face.

Sharon Denise Dixon also hung out.

Did not see Ed Smith in the flesh. Just on velvet.

Ginger Rugai got off easy.

And Sandi Jackson’s poster vaguely looks Obamaesque. She’s got to be thrilled about that.

We should have gone downstairs and tried the Stroger. And just when you think $1 is a deal for a whole lotta pork, look closer at the “service fee”.

It was the first time I showed up to something Carlos Hernandez Gomez should have been at. He’d have eaten the scene up.

Mister said our guy from the First Ward had been there – was on his way out the door. Good thing I missed him. I wanted to yell at him for abandoning us to take a better gig.

Lisagor finalists revealed today

And my unemployed veterans made the cut of Chicago’s journalism awards.

I love this story, too. I can’t wait to tell the vets we’re all up for glory and honor come the end of April. Sadly, there’s no chance I’d get to go + 4.

Scroll down to “Category D-16, Business or consumer reporting“.

Speaking of Louis Sullivan

Yes, I’m that public radio fan that even listens through pledge breaks.

This morning’s focus on Chicago architect Louis Sullivan on 848 reminds me of my own Midwestern brush with one of his gems:

His jewel box bank in Grinnell, Iowa, a lovely college town.

I was on my way to report on the Denver National Convention. Mister was at the wheel on I-80. Bari Italian 9-inchers in the back seat, percolating in paper wrap. Signs to a “jewel box bank” beckoned. What better place to shove sammies in mouths?

I really should see more Midwest while I live here.

‘Fraudulent Facebook account tormented Chicago Heights woman’

Franchon Johnson was at her wits’ end when she called. What she could not do on her own over several weeks of calls and emails, I accomplished in 20 minutes. So glad to do it of course; so pathetic she had to threaten to embarrass Facebook and Chicago Heights police in print to do it.

ps- I’m at 708-802-8832.

Someone called Franchon Johnson-Smith apparently uses a Medicaid card
for all-expense getaways to the mental hospital, if you believe
Facebook.

Her momma loves to play Love Connection at the penitentiary.

She’s also publicly posted her phone number and home address, where
she lives with her three children.

Except the real Franchon, of Chicago Heights – whose name is Johnson, not Johnson-Smith – does none of these things.

The 36-year-old just wanted to get back in touch with old friends
when she set up a profile on Feb. 10. A few days after she opened the
account, her profile was copied by someone who clearly doesn’t like
her. Her address and 12-year-old son’s cell phone number were
publicized against her will. Her photo was duplicated from her real
account.

Johnson, who believes she knows who’s to blame, was stonewalled until the SouthtownStar made some phone calls. On Monday, Facebook deleted the fake Franchon’s profile.

Johnson had filed police reports and sent multiple e-mails reporting the abuse to Facebook headquarters asking it to investigate. But neither Chicago Heights police nor staff from the social networking site would help her take down the fraudulent account, the existence of which, she said, threatened her and her young children.

“This is dangerous. This is my phone number, my home address in public view,” she said. “Someone really hates Franchon, in a nutshell.

“I just want them to leave me alone,” she said.

Pleas for help go unanswered

Facebook forbids fake names and fraudulent use, according to the online terms of service. It has several ways online to report harassment or fraudulent accounts. Johnson filled out forms and had been e-mailing them since mid-February.

The company had not yet dealt with Johnson’s problem until contacted by the SouthtownStar with a link to the faux Facebook page.

Simon Axten, a company spokesman, said harassment and fraud complaints usually are dealt with in about 48 hours, but didn’t know why Johnson’s[0] reports went unanswered for so long.

“We try to handle all reports as quickly as possible,” he said, adding he’d have to dig deeper for a specific answer.

Axten wouldn’t go into detail about how Facebook confirmed the fake profile was indeed bogus.

Axten said the fastest way to report a duplicate or fake account is through the bad account’s page.

He said the company receives “thousands” of abuse reports each week, but couldn’t specify how many pertain to duplicate accounts.

Facebook will not reveal who opened an account to law enforcement unless presented a subpoena or court order, he said.

Johnson[0] called Chicago Heights police, and made reports on Feb. 17 and 18. The responding officer wrote only that she had complained “unknown(s) were making fun of her mother on an unknown Facebook account with complainant’s name on it.”

The Feb. 17 report listed the complaint’s disposition as closed.

Johnson[0] said she shared her suspicions about the perpetrators with the officers. She said she had been harassed by them before.

The responding officer told her he wasn’t computer literate, so he couldn’t really help her, she said.

Chief Michael Camilli said Chicago Heights doesn’t have a specific cybercrimes officer or unit, but that hasn’t stopped the department in the past from seeking help from neighboring departments or Cook County.

He said he’d look further into the case and had instructed the head of investigations to talk to Johnson.

Meanwhile, Johnson, who had warned her online friends about the imposter, was thrilled to be free.

“Oh my God, it’s gone,” she said, logging on to check for herself.

“It’s a beautiful thing.”

Read the whole story as published in the SouthtownStar, March 9, 2010.

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‘Worlds apart’

Jaime Thomas does not want to move.

She is barely settled at Lincoln-Way East High School. She is finding her way in her first year of high school. She thrives at choir, fills sketchbooks for art classes, devours imported Japanese comic books.

Jaime especially does not want to go to a tiny Wyoming town with a population equal to that of her school. She does not want to leave her friends in Mokena. She’ll maybe consider one bright possibility – riding a horse.

“I just don’t like it. I don’t like it at all. My friends don’t really ask about it too, ’cause I guess they know not to ask me ’cause either I get really mad or just like ” she said. “It’s hard to talk about it too.”

Everything will change. Everything has changed.

Jaime’s dad, Fred, needed a paycheck.

Pressmen aren’t in high demand anymore, so he went looking for work in one of the nation’s few growth industries – corrections. His search took him more than 1,000 miles from home, to Newcastle, Wyo., where he’s worked as a prison guard since October.

Sometime this summer his wife, Lisa, with Jaime and her brother, Michael, in tow, will follow him west, seeking new opportunities in a tough economy as Americans have done for years. They’ll leave the 24/7 pace of the suburbs for a one-stoplight town, where the nearest fast food joint is more than an hour’s drive away.

Lisa Thomas has been holding down her family’s fort, but she’s struggling to support them with her paycheck from the Park Forest Public Library.

And public jobs are being cut back, too, for librarians and teachers. Hours are shrinking. Furloughs are becoming the norm.

Lisa, 46, will make the best of her new hometown. She will find a house big enough for four, plus visitors from home. She will learn to plan her grocery outings to the “big” nearby town that has just a smidge more people than Mokena’s 18,000. She herself will find work, maybe in a new business. And Lisa’s allergies and asthma might improve in the cleaner setting.

But she will say goodbye to the bookclubs she’s cultivated at the library, to her own mother up the road in Palos Hills, to her brother and niece across the street, to Fred’s sister in New Lenox. She will keeping blogging “From Mokena 2 Wyoming ,” for them. At least she doesn’t have to sell their rented condo. She trusts the husband she describes as “sturdy” and gives the kids a pep talk. Jamie’s digging in her heels, while Michael is OK with the move.

“See guys, we’re part of the American fabric, what this country was founded on,” she told her kids. “We’re picking up and heading west.” They’re following in the path of the pioneers on a trail that’s all highway now.

“It is very American, what we’re having to do,” Lisa said. “Times got tough, Fred lost his job, we’re going to forge a new frontier as it were.”

‘Everybody knows everybody’
Fred Thomas shares a trailer with a co-worker in downtown Newcastle, three miles down the mountain from his assigned honor camp. He patrols hallways, checks inmates in and out of the low-security facility. He works the night shift – something he became accustomed to during his 30 years printing newspapers.

“I love it out here,” he said. “I have no traffic. Everything’s so laid back. Everybody waves, everybody talks to you. You have to be very friendly in tiny towns because everybody knows everybody.”

Fred, 48, had been laid off three times during his career before he took a buyout a year ago. This time, when he looked for work, he considered lithography. He took a test for the Will County sheriff’s office to do courtroom security. He saw a recruiting event for Wyoming ‘s state corrections department in Tinley Park, figuring he could practice for the Will County test.

Two things quickly happened: He failed the local test and Wyoming made him an offer.

Fred decided to forge ahead while his family prepared to uproot. He doesn’t like to talk about the distance from his kids. He’s shut that part of himself down.
“It’s very hard. I put it in a box and put it away in my head. If I sit and ponder it.”

Instead, he chats about a commute that takes just minutes through the timber, crossing paths with roaming cattle and eagles perched on fenceposts. He plans to buy a handgun so he can jog safely near mountain lion territory. He loves the outdoors, gardening and fishing.

High-jobless states targeted Wyoming ‘s corrections department had recruited in states with the highest unemployment rates. Michigan was at the top of the list, but Illinois also made the cut.

Eleven Illinoisans have taken jobs since September as a result of the recruiting events. Most of them went to a new prison in Torrington, while only Fred is in Newcastle.

Newcastle’s mayor, Greg James, also works at the honor camp with Fred. He teaches vocational skills to the inmates and moved to Wyoming from Utah 20 years ago to raise his kids in the wilderness, far from crime.

“We’re a very, very friendly community, very open to people coming in, very willing to help people get settled,” he said.

Fred’s family can choose from at least a dozen churches, several little restaurants and two grocery stores. The town’s public school is only five years old and holds just 225 students – a tenth of Lincoln-Way East’s enrollment.

The views also are stunning; Deadwood and Mount Rushmore are easy day trips away.

“If you’re accustomed to the suburbs and the city, it can be quite an adjustment,” James said.

There’s just one movie theater in town and no mall or big fast-food chains.

“It can be unsettling to know that a McDonald’s is an hour-and-a-half away.”
It’s not malls or junk food Jaime or her brother will miss. It’s the culture they suck up living so close to Chicago.

For Michael, happiness is seeing underground bands live.

At 18, he lives for punk rock shows, thrashing in the pit in T-shirts that scream out the names of his favorite bands. He and friends drive into Chicago to see local acts at small all-ages clubs. They line up for tickets to big summer festivals.
Michael blew off his prom to see a Distorted show. Michael’s boots are black combat, not cowboy.

But like his father, Michael loves the outdoors. He longs for a new start, too. He’d have enlisted in the Army this fall except he didn’t want to leave his mom and sister alone. And like his mom and sister, he’s constantly reading. He keenly feels his dad’s absence at home playing computer games or at Walt’s where they both had part-time jobs.

“I don’t want to think about it too much,” Michael said. “He’s my dad. I miss him.”

With high school long over, Michael’s ready to take a big step. Maybe study history. Roam around. With room to think under wide skies, he’ll try to figure it out.

“I’ll be going to college out there now. Maybe I’ll meet new people out there. Around here, it’s well, I don’t like it,” he said. “I’d just like a change of scenery.”

As published in the SouthtownStar, March 7, 2010, on pages 1 and 8.